Our daughter (although divorced, I prefer to say ‘our’ instead of ‘my’) turns 20 this month. That makes her no longer a teenager which, on itself, is something I have to digest…as I come to think about it.
I strongly, besides being overwhelmed with love, recall realizing moving a generation up when I held her for the very first time.
If you have read other posts of mine, you know I have a sweet spot for children, for many reasons. Not in the least they are a joy to take photographs of. When friends of mine asked to take pictures of her being heavily pregnant, I did not hesitate to propose to take pictures of their child when it is born as well.
The love and care for their new-born child was beautiful and touching. It took me back to the time our daughter was that small as well.
By the way, did you count the little toes and fingers of your child too when it was born?
One adorable little baby
Two eyes looking at me with wonder
Three human beings connected with another for ever
Four frowns, sneezes and smiles
Five fingers on your little hand
You make your parents
feel so much more
than what they already were
before you decided to join them in life.
I have a daily routine in which I read a passage of Sonia Choquette’s book Grace, Guidance and Gifts. It’s a book you never finish and in that way is a companion on your life’s journey. There a some profound wisdom in it, for example about listening:
To listen to others is…
to learn from their experience
to draw from their gifts
to bask in their victories
to grieve with their losses
Listening is expanding your own life experience.
When I got to play in my first band, the band members used to call me ‘Flying Vinny’ because I often close my eyes and drop my head backwards when playing a solo on the guitar. I like this nickname and see other guitarists doing just the same 🙂
When I was shooting for a storytelling project I am conducting these days for the city of Amsterdam, my path crossed that of Sjuul. Sjuul is, besides an awesome guy, a personal trainer and movement/mobility/Capoeira specialist. We had a chat and decided to have an impromptu photo shoot which turned out quite well. Jules knows every bit about your body’s alignement but the title of this blog has an other meaning. When things are aligned and well, beautiful things can happen, even if they are not planned like the photo shoot with Sjuul.
Jump rope with life instead of turning the rope and not jumping-Sonia Choquette.
‘True love shines through one’s eye’
This sentence popped up in my mind when I thought about Sandro Miller and his wife Claude. I still cherish meeting the famous photographer Sandro Miller and Claude. As if meeting a photographer with such an immense talent was not already enough to have a profound impact on me, meeting him and his wife was a testament of how two people can be ment to share their lives with each other. Their eyes sparkle when they speak about each other and each other accomplishments.
As I was recently going through his feed on Facebook, I came across this quote that he wrote when they got married:
Meeting you was fate.
Becoming your friend was a choice.
Falling in love with you was beyond my control.
Well, that sums it all up, right?
I don’t know whether this comes from Sandro himself but that obviously does not matter. As you stay true to yourself, the people that resonate with your true being are destined to enter your life and will just do that. They help you to destruct what is no longer useful and to manifest what helps you along your path ❤.
When I started this blog a few years back, I decided to call it ‘Pix And Thoughts’. The reason for this, is that I wanted to share my thoughts around the pictures I take with everybody who is interested in both my photography and my thoughts around the photographs. These thoughts are sometimes about the gear I used and more technical aspects, but often they are of a philosophical and spiritual nature. With doing that I show my audience a side of the personality and soul that I am.
When starting this blog, I have challenged myself to only use black and white pictures and to write it in English (I am Dutch). As not all pictures do well in black and white, this means I don’t alway have a right picture to use, so I just wait with writing a blog post until I have a picture to write something about. Having said that, this time I am inspired by a song but did not have the right picture at hand. Until now. The inspiration is from a song by Eric Johnson. Beside being an amazing guitarist and a humble and soft spoken man, he has written these meaningful lines:
Desert Rose that dances
In the heat of the sky
I must pattern my life around you
You can make the most
When the waters run dry
Look into the well
Deep inside you
Don’t fade away….
Over the years, I’ve come to meet enough people in my life faced with the many challenges that life can give you. Abusive partners, break ups, children neglected by their parents, chronic or even deadly diseases, mental issues and scars from their own childhood. Like everybody else I’ve got my fair share too.
The image of a desert rose is so striking because that is just what life is about. Standing tall and proud, knowing you are a wonderful being who is able to make your physical life and that from the people around you a beautiful experience.
There is a reason for you, being around us. Life loves you, don’t ever forget that.
Take me to the beach
Take along all of your dearest friends
Look across the sea and into infinity
Make fun and connect
Use all of you senses
is what we are.
I did a shoot recently of a band that covers The Beatles. An excellent band and the musicians are dear friends of mine. As I was hopping on and off the stage taking pictures, I also took a walk among the audience. I came across this mother swaying around her son. It was a lovely sight seeing them having fun and to see the boy totally surrendering to his mum. They say to cherish every moment of your child’s childhood and they are absolutely right. This little boy will be a grown man one day and not to be swayed around so easily like this any more 😉
You want to take a picture of me? Allright then…I’ll give you my ‘signature look’ 🙂